According to Ong, writing is something that isolates us from the world around us. In order to write we must separate ourselves from the world and make our own little world. This is quite interesting actually. With oral traditions you have an audience and so you cannot disconnect from the world instead you must find a way to relate what you know or want to tell someone into something that they can understand. In order to do this, you must connect with their own esperiences, and so it is necessary to not only connect to the world but draw from it in order to show your audience what you intend to show them. In other words, you must talk of the world as it is, not as you see or imagine it.
On the other hand there is writing. Writing requires isolation. I have seen this for myself first hand. Every time that I go to write, it is necessary that I find a quiet place where I can think to myself because writing requires that we order our thoughts, that we make them clear and concise, that we think on exactly what it is we are trying to say. Writing can be fun and enjoyable but it also is something that must be done alone. We do not write for others. We write for ourselves. Even the greatest authors of all time, from Wilde to Rowling and beyond, did not write their novels and plays simply for the enjoyment of the audience. It started with an idea that the author felt strongly about and grew into a story that the rest of the world could comprehend and connect with, though that was not the stories original intent. No matter how often we may say that we only wished to share our ideas with the world, in the end we are all just looking to escape to our own imagination where every thing is as we dreamed it.
This is not such a bad thing, but I think that perhaps we should learn to once again connect with others for our stories rather than just with ourselves.